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Shelly Lefkoe – Raising The Next Generation
DEVELOP A WONDERFUL RELATIONSHIP WITH YOUR CHILDREN
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Raising the Next Generation teaches you how to move beyond basic parenting skills to provide a platform for your child to become more caring, engaged and self-aware.
You’ll find that you’ll spend less and less of your time addressing tense, difficult situations and more time enjoying the relationship while imparting skills and perspectives that can last a lifetime. You’ll discover how to truly empower your children to grow up wise, confident and capable of living their greatest dreams.
You’ll develop a more mature, healthy and loving relationship with your kids and create relationships that are more trusting and secure. And from this foundation, you can become their biggest cheerleader as they pursue their world-changing dreams!
What could be more satisfying (and valuable) than that?
OVER THE COURSE OF YOUR 7 WEEKS WITH SHELLY, YOU’LL:
Understand how your behaviors are translated into specific beliefs
Learn how to convert win/lose interactions into a win for both you and your child
Develop the most important skill a child must have when you send them out into the world (if they can do just this one thing, you can sleep soundly at night)
Practice effective ways to deprogram your own limiting beliefs and experiences that subconsciously affect your parenting
Discover the five most damaging beliefs and how they sabotage a person in adult life (as well as how to avoid them)
Identify negative beliefs in yourself and nip them in the bud before you transmit them to the next generation
Discover how to teach your child to respect your needs and those of others in a way that makes them feel important and valued
Understand the one thing that can sabotage all your efforts, no matter how positive and conscious a parent you are
See the power of two key questions that let you know whether you’re parenting effectively for the long term or focusing on a quick resolution at the expense of your child’s future success and happiness
Come away with ways to reduce or eliminate stress from your parenting
Identify what type of parenting leads to long-term success and happiness
Harness a method for identifying and shifting negative beliefs that get in the way of your parenting
A Note to Grandparents, Mentors, Allies and Caregivers
While this course is oriented primarily to parents, the concepts and skills can be applied whether you’re a grandparent, mentor, caregiver or even just a supportive ally. The truth is that virtually everyone struggles with the challenges of parenting and can use the knowledge presented in this program to transform challenges into opportunities, and problems into blessings.
If you want to positively affect our planet and empower the younger ones in your life to be wiser, more enlightened and actively engaged in improving the world, you’ll find this program invaluable.
WHAT YOU’LL DISCOVER IN THESE 7 WEEKS
Course sessions are on Thursdays at Noon Pacific
In this 7-week transformational intensive, Shelly will guide you through the fundamental skills and competencies you’ll need to successfully raise children who are happy and conscious and who will have the power to impact their own lives and the lives of others while contributing their unique gifts to the world.
Each weekly LIVE contemplation and training session will build harmoniously upon the next so that you’ll develop a complete, holistic understanding of the practices, tools and principles that can empower your child to find happiness and success now — and as an adult.
MODULE 1: THE MOST IMPORTANT FACTOR FOR YOUR CHILD’S HAPPINESS & SUCCESS (OCTOBER 6)
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As a parent, you tend to get caught up in day-to-day minutia and may forget what your dreams for your children are. If we told you that your job is being responsible for the physical, spiritual, intellectual and emotional development of your child, would you say, “No worries, I got this?â€
It’s easy to lose sight of how what we say and do impacts our children. We don’t realize how our actions today can affect the rest of their lives. Beliefs form at a young age and are rarely outgrown. It’s far easier to instill strong positive beliefs early on than to reverse negative beliefs as an adult. In this module, we’ll explore the single most important thing you need to know as a parent and how knowing this one thing can help determine your child’s future success and happiness.
In this session, you’ll:
Discover what you really want for your children (and it may not be what you think you want!)
Uncover the single most important thing that may be preventing your children from enjoying happy, successful lives
Acquire the keys to raising a happy, conscious child who will make a difference in the world
Understand how beliefs (what your children believe to be true about themselves, life and people) can keep your children from moving forward and having a wonderful life — self-esteem and confidence are not the only predictors of future success
Find out which beliefs will empower your children, and how beliefs can help or hurt them
Discover the 10 worst things you can do to a child — many parents do these unknowingly to the detriment of their children’s happiness and wellbeing
MODULE 2: STEERING THEM AWAY FROM NEGATIVE BELIEFS (OCTOBER 13)
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Damaging beliefs keep a person from living their fullest, best life. In this module, we’ll talk about the five most harmful and common beliefs that people develop (even people you may think are successful) and how you as a parent can prevent their formation in your children. We’ll also look at the positive side of beliefs — the beliefs that help people excel in life, live out their dreams and be happy, positive contributors to society.
In this session, you’ll:
Uncover how beliefs shape a person’s reality, influence their actions, behaviors and choices, and determine what they attract into their lives
Discover the five most damaging beliefs and how they sabotage a person in adult life
Find out why problems in school, issues with friends, depression and underperformance are tied to a child’s beliefs
Be given techniques to ensure that your child grows up with healthy beliefs; for example, beliefs like “I am capable†and “I make a difference†will allow them to make a positive impact in the world
Discover the two key questions every parent must ask themselves before they react to their child
Understand how teaching children “the right answers†actually prevents them from learning
MODULE 3: DEALING WITH YOUR DISSATISFACTION (OCTOBER 20)
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Often as parents, we want our children to be or react in a certain way that isn’t compatible with their current stage of development. In other words, they’re not able to think the way we want them to or expect them to because their brains are still developing. At each stage of development, children are forming beliefs about themselves. If you have unrealistic expectations about what they should be able to do — and they’re not developed enough physically or emotionally to meet those expectations — your unrealistic desires can do major damage to their developing self-esteem and confidence. Children may start to believe something is wrong with them because they can’t be or do what you’re expecting them to be or do.
In this session, you’ll:
Explore the stages of childhood development and what you can realistically expect from your child in each phase
Understand why expecting teenagers to act and behave like adults can create a very dangerous belief
Discover how you can help children become world-centric adults
Find out why a harmful belief that 90% of children develop can cause resentment and rob them of their free will
MODULE 4: STOPPING YOUR STRESS (OCTOBER 27)
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In this module, you’ll learn how managing your stress leads to better parenting. No matter how committed we are to being parents who help our children form positive beliefs, when we’re undergoing significant stress we’re more likely to get annoyed, upset or angry. The same behavior from our children that we laugh off when we’re in a good mood can cause us to blow our tops when we’re feeling stressed out. It follows that significantly reducing your stress will improve your relationship with your children.
As you discovered in the previous module, if your expectations are consistent with what your child is capable of, you’ll improve the quality of your interactions with your children and reduce your stress level. But there’s something else you can do to virtually eliminate your stress.
In this session, you’ll:
Understand why events have no inherent meaning and can’t cause reactions in and of themselves
Appreciate how almost all feelings come from the meaning you assign to events
See that if you stop giving meaning to meaningless events, you can eliminate your negative feelings around those events
Recognize that stress is the result of negative feelings — no negative feelings, no stress
Determine how to distinguish meaning from events so you can realize when you’re imbuing a neutral event with meaning
Explore how to dissolve meaning
MODULE 5: RAISING THEM TO SEE POSSIBILITIES & OPPORTUNITIES (NOVEMBER 3)
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In this module, you’ll discover how to help your children be free to express themselves, and how we as parents, even with all our uncertainty, can ensure that our children grow up with a sense of freedom, joy, resilience, fearlessness and innovation.
In this session, you’ll:
Understand how your beliefs may be limiting your sense of freedom (hint: it has to do with letting things happen instead of making things happen)
Realize the real definition of self-esteem — what creates and what the link is between self-esteem and beliefs
Identify the one word you should immediately remove from your vocabulary — and the word you should replace it with
Explore how self-esteem comes from the self and not from others
Find out how to facilitate an “I can†environment and why it’s the most powerful tool in your parenting toolbox
Investigate why resilience is so important and how to instill it in your child
Discover how you and your child can experience true freedom
Learn to model how to be in the present moment
MODULE 6: EMPOWERING THEM TO CARE FOR & BE ABLE TO CHANGE THE WORLD (NOVEMBER 10)
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People who have a strong value system and know what they stand for have it easier in life than those who have not clearly defined their values. When your values are clear, your journey is more fulfilling. The context in which you parent and live your life affects everything. Most people — even the most well-intentioned people — parent arbitrarily, which can have devastating effects on their children.
In this session, you’ll:
Explore why so many people are living “should†lives and how to shift to living a value-generated life — when you know what your values are, the right decisions come naturally and easily
Understand how to make sure your child knows who they are and how to build their own personal value system
Appreciate how to strengthen your family through the understanding that each person contributes to the whole — and why each individual is better for it
Realize why creating a clearly outlined “Family Context†should be a top priority
Appreciate the importance of teaching kids about sufficiency — that they are enough and they have enough
Discover how to escape the trap of entitlement — how to teach your kids to achieve deep satisfaction independent of what or how much they own
Learn how to turn complaints into requests
Recognize the importance of apologizing and remaking commitments
Realize the power and importance of creating and nurturing relationships
Establish the importance of integrity and how to model it
Understand the three myths of scarcity and how banishing them empowers children
MODULE 7: OPENING TO THE KEYSTONE SECRETS FOR SUCCESS (NOVEMBER 17)
Secret Module: We can’t tell you this one until we finish the first six modules
